Tuesday, 22 June 2010

After weeks of hunting, comes the foul and then the granted pray(er)

The hubs and I have been spending the last year mulling over the prospect of relocating. We have spent the past month or two eyeing up suitable accomadation, weighing the ups and downs of complex A vs complex B, will the apartment be too small, too noisy, too happening? Just some of the questions we've been debating over.

Alhamdulilah, I am glad to say we have found what seems like the ideal city centre apartment for us, and gosh I AM SO VERY EXCITED! Thrilled would be too much right now, but I'm kinda close to it :-) A little haven, a love nest just for the two of us. Without giving away too much about the exact location details to the whole wide but small world, our little apartment will be ready for us to move in to after we return from Umrah (another big YAY) in July. This is what it looks like from afar:


After viewing close to dozen or so flats, countless looong and late conversation between the hubs and I, we decided to snap this one up before the renting population of B'ham swallowed it up! Super excited.

So that was the hunting, and the granted prayer bit. Part 1.

Part 2 is where the foul takes place.

Ever since the hubs and I got married, we talked a great deal about making the Umrah pilgrimmage when we both would be ready for the next leap in our lives. With the significant changes that took place in our lives, just less than a year ago, we decided to do Umrah Hajj before moving out and flying the marital nest. Living together, just the two of us, in an unknown town does seem quite daunting, especially since we will not have any family, or close friends physically within reach of us. And so we figured we could do with strengthing our imaan and our bond with the Almighty, and ultimately seeking His blessings and love before finally moving out.

March/April was when the official search for Umrah deals began and quite shortly we realised how pricey the deals can be around July time. We came across an agent who claimed to offer some of the cheapest deals on the net, and after some enquiries went ahead with it. Since then, this so called agent has been nothing but a constant pain in the neck. Two months after paying a third of the whole payment, numerous sleepless nights and days of being sick and tired of waiting for him to send some sort of confirmation through, we realised the incompetent agent was nothing more than an unprofessional and unreliable travel agent who was more interested in fobbing us off than sorting anything out for us. Enough became enough and we decided to cancel the deal with him, despite his promises of sorting something out soon.

By that point, I had reached melting point, distraught and confused by what had just happended. I had set my heart on going to Umrah for such a long time so why is this happening right now? Doesn't Allah want me to visit His sacred and holy site?

My prayers were answered the next day, a Friday alhamdulilah, when after much hunting for a reliable and decent priced travel agent, I found one who could offer us a tailor made package on the dates that we required. SubhanAllah.

We are also expecting a refund of the deposit soon iA. *clears throat*

Moral of the story folks.
  1. Cheap does not always = cheerful.
  2. When booking flights through agents, make sure they are at least ATOL protected.
  3. Having one's imaan checked and tested is vital and prerequisite of life, always seek the guidance of Allah.
  4. Pray and then hunt for the prey :P
Okay. Long story, cut not so short! lol

Anyhoo, I'm gonna be off to help myself to a cool, sweet and milky white Magnum. For now, check out the cute ickle ducklings the hubs and I came befriended near our soon to move into apartment:


Peace and love!

4 comments:

Is-za Jelass said...

My husband and I want to move too but now that we have a baby on the way and we would literally have to break our lease to get out it seems more difficult to do so. :( I can't stand the area we live in.

Saba said...

Finding the perfect place to live is so important. Masha'Allah, I'm happy for you. I love my apartment and Alhamdulillah, I'm so grateful we found it. We really couldn't be happier and it has become our home! May Allah (swt) bless your home!

Rene´s Bare Essentials said...

Congratulations on finding a new place =) Moving is so much fun and exciting. My husband and I were in a similar situation and it took 6 months of searching to find a new apartment (our current place is not big enough for our new baby thats on the way, inshaaLLAH), but alhamdullilah we ended up finding the perfect place right under our noses (literally lol), we moved down the hallway to a vacant apartment and fell in love with it. InshaAllah you will get your refund and have a wonderful and enlightening experience at ummrah.

mint.fresh.muslim said...

Thanks sisters for your messages.
@Is-za Jelass - I pray you and your family (including the little one) find a solution to your problem and that you are safe from harms way inshaAllah.

@Saba - Ameen, thanks Saba! Same to you to :-)

@Rene - Ameen, thanksie Rene! And a huge CONGRATULATIONS to you and your hubby. Hope you and the little one are doing great ;-) Don't you just love it when things work out great! Hope your house is full of joy and peace iA xx